We may not be able to choose our family, but you would have chosen to be your aunt's relative anyway. She's your older friend, the woman you go to for advice on all manner of things. Together, you happily chat around a restaurant's table until closing. You're family and you're friends. So reach through time and space to toast your aunt! Celebrate her birthday with her. Show your aunt she's loved. Wish her "happy birthday" with all your heart.